If men don't have an orgasm every 48-72 hours, they won't be able to stay sexually pure. One popular series of books about "everyman's" battle with sex advocates that women should realize how much men struggle with sex and that it is their obligation to help them by being regularly sexually available.

True courage is taking that first step towards healing when healing seems so impossible to obtain. It's looking yourself in the mirror after being rejected and telling yourself you are beautiful. Courage is believing, even though you might not feel it, that you are loved by God. True Courage is more than overcoming a physical challenge it is facing what can be the scariest thing you have even encountered: your inner self.

Most parents I talk to whole heartedly agree that their kids need help navigating the sexually explicit 21st Century. But most that I observe end up leaving their children to fend for themselves. The may punish them if they are caught looking at pornography or sexting, but that does little good in the long run.

When my son was diagnosed with cancer, I began to live with the reality of what cancer was capable of doing. I knew that this disease could create havoc in my son’s body. The idea of not having control over how the cancer was going to spread or the damage it would do to Seth was almost too much for me to handle.

In the same way for the past 4 years I have lived, constantly aware that at any moment my husband could choose his path of sin again. Just like I had no control over cancer’s destructive path, I also have no control over the choices of my husband.

Emotional wounds can become an identity we allow ourselves to live under. At least I did! I saw myself as a betrayed wife. A woman who was left damaged, having little value or approval. Outwardly people thought I was doing well, but inwardly I was shriveling up with the feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness.