I have yet to meet a sex addict (who is active in their addiction) who isn't angry, or at least easily irritated. I used to be like this myself; grumpy, selfish, ready at the drop of a hat to chew people up and spit them out. Addiction, by it's very nature, is imprisonment to something that never satisfies. Such a cycle of futility isn't how one grows in contentment and joy. No, addiction is a pathway to agitated bitterness.